by Best-Of-Q-A
How to fix or get over being love-shy?
March 7, 2010 in Questions & Answers by Best-Of-Q-A
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love-shy
I think his wikipedia page almost perfectly describes my dilemma with girls. Even being an overall nice person to everyone doesn’t help because I get so shy around girls, and have always been rejected by them all the time, 100% of the time. All the dates I’ve been on except possibly one were humiliating disasters and not good experiences. Even though I adore and respect women, I’ve never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship, have only ever been kissed just once in my whole life, and always end up in the friend zone, never the boyfriend zone.
As a young adult guy, I don’t know what to do to fix this condition because I have 0 experience at all with relationships, and the most girls have ever wanted with me has been friendship and never more. Female friends have politely refused to help introduce me to their single friends because of my shyness and inexperience, and online dating attempts have been completely unsuccessful.
How can a guy get over being love-shy if the only response he gets from girls is rejection and no one will even consider him for more than friendship?
Practice make perfects. Besides that, give yourself a chance and don’t be too hard on your failures.